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Receiving Oral Sex Is Actually a Form of Giving
For Some Receiving May Be Harder Than Giving
Now that I’ve got the attention of every male on the planet, give me a minute to wave all the female folk over.
Great! Welcome everyone . . . whatever your sexual orientation we all have a thing or two to learn when it comes to the part of the sex act that can give some people a full-body cringe.
Spoiler: This article contains no x-rated scenes. Sorry.
We don’t need oral sex to procreate, so what good is it? Some believe that oral sex evolved to be used in place of intercourse to avoid pregnancy when there are no contraceptive options available.
Some people have placed the oral sex act in a group labeled “non-sexual activity” so that by engaging in it, one can retain their virginity while being intimate. However, for those who live across the street in the polar-opposite campsite, oral sex is a special kind of sex labeled “sin” if allowed outside of marriage.
For the rest of us, oral sex is just oral sex.
With all the various ideas and confusion surrounding this carnal gem, it’s no wonder some people have trouble giving and receiving it. And to make it even more complex, this portion of sexual desire — the oral sex part — can make both parties a little uncomfortable…
